Your first dance shouldn't feel like a performance
It should feel like you
A first dance built around your song, your comfort level, and how nervous you actually are (not a routine picked off a shelf).
Sound familiar?
Does this sound like you?
"What if we forget everything halfway through?"
"I don't want to look stiff or robotic."
"My fiancé really can't dance."
"Everyone is going to be watching us."
"We don't have time to practice."
"I have no rhythm at all."
If you nodded at any of these, this was built for you.
Hi, I'm Andrew
I turn nervous beginners into couples who dance like they've done it for years
I'm a former professional ballroom dancer, and today I'm one of the most-followed wedding dance teachers in the world, with over 7.5 million followers watching what I teach, because I make difficult steps easy.
For the past 10 years I've worked with wedding couples, one nervous pair at a time, and used that to perfect a method that turns complete beginners into natural, relaxed dancers on their wedding day.
Because your first dance isn't about perfect technique, it's about feeling calm enough to actually enjoy it.
Not another dance class. Not a stressful countdown.
This is a simple system, built only for your wedding day.
Beginners, not dancers
Built for two left feet, not trained performers.
Made for you, not a template
Every choreography is custom-built for your exact song and your level.
Home, not a studio
Practice privately, on your own time.
Confidence, not perfection
The goal is to feel calm, not flawless.
Simple, step by step
How does it work?
No guesswork, no overwhelm. Just five simple steps between signing up and walking onto the dance floor with confidence.
Get your personalized choreography
Right after you sign up, you'll get an email with everything you need. Tell us your song and your level, and we build your 10-move choreography around it.
Learn move by move
Just 10 moves, step-by-step video lessons at your own pace, as many times as you need. Everything is custom to you, with lifts or without, whatever feels right for the two of you.
Practice at home, 20-30 min a day
A simple daily routine, no studio, no equipment, so it becomes second nature.
Get personal feedback
Send your practice video and get real feedback from Andrew before the big day.
Dance with confidence on your wedding day
Walk onto the floor knowing exactly what to do, and actually enjoy the moment.
Real messages, real couples
What couples send us after their first dance
James & Sophie
Charlotte & Oliver
George & Ella
Hannah & Lukas
Enroll today and unlock 4 bonuses - free
Everything extra you need, included at no cost.
Personal feedback
Send your practice video and get real feedback from Andrew Ikim, so you know you're on track before the big day.
Value: $99
Dance All Night Course
A bonus party dance course, slow dance, Latin, and more, so you own the whole dance floor, not just your first dance.
Value: $129
Custom Song Edit
If your song is too long, too slow to start, or has an awkward intro, we'll professionally edit it to the perfect length for your dance.
Value: $49
The Dress Rehearsal Guide
How to move, turn, and hold your dress with confidence, so you never have to worry about tripping or feeling stuck.
Value: $39
Why couples choose us
Why couples choose Ikim Dance
Truly custom
Built around your exact song and your comfort level, not picked off a shelf.
Zero experience needed
Designed for couples who have never danced a single step together.
Practice without an audience
Learn at home, in your own living room. No one watching you learn.
A safety net, not a test
Send your practice video and get real feedback before the big day.
No subscriptions
One payment, lifetime access, no monthly fees.
Lifts, or no lifts
Your choice. Every dance works either way.
Less than one private lesson
Real custom choreography, without the price tag of hiring an instructor.
Built for both of you
Especially if one of you is more nervous than the other.
Here's everything you get
Total value: $615
$199
One-time payment · Lifetime access
Get instant access →Zero risk, on your terms
Before I start building your custom choreography, if you change your mind for any reason, you get a full refund, no questions asked. Once your choreography is ready, if you follow the lessons and still don't feel confident, I'll keep working with you, for free, until you do. That's my promise.
See it in action
Real couples, real first dances
Questions before you start
Everything shows up right inside your account, and you'll also get an email with a direct link. Just log in anytime and your lessons are there.
Forever. One payment, lifetime access. Rewatch as many times as you need, before and even after the wedding.
Just enough room to take a few steps together. A corner of your living room is usually plenty. No special floor or equipment needed.
Yes. Every choreography is only 10 moves, built specifically for couples with zero dance experience.
Most couples start 4 to 6 weeks before the wedding, practicing 20 to 30 minutes a day. If your wedding is closer than that, don't worry, we'll help you fit the timeline that works for you.
Yes. That's exactly what the Dress Rehearsal Guide bonus is for, it shows you how to move, turn, and hold your dress with confidence.
Send me a video of your practice and I'll give you real, personal feedback before the big day, so you know you're ready, not guessing.
Every choreography can include a lift, or skip it entirely, it's completely up to you. We build the dance around what feels comfortable and safe for the two of you.
Any song you love works, any genre, any length. If it's too long or has an awkward intro, the Custom Song Edit bonus trims it to the perfect length for your dance.
Completely normal, and this was built for exactly that. The choreography is simple enough that the more hesitant partner feels just as confident as the other.
Ready to feel confident on your wedding day?
Join today for $199 - lifetime access, all 4 bonuses included.
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